Showing posts with label fall. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fall. Show all posts

Sunday, December 11, 2011

blessings, circa 2011


moments of love, gentleness and sweetness.
generosity. Saydah doggy allows ANY of Violet's 'other' animals to dine with her.

impromptu piano concerts (played to a full house!)
leaves. and cousins.

a beautiful late fall day where daddy and Ollie can go play baseball


lizards in the backyard!


"maybe he like to sit in my hair!"

buddies so special that they let you snuggle in their new big-girl bed.


a random hug after frolicking all over with bambi and thumper, who needed a rest.



spiderman love (and again, cousins)

a spontaneous bedtime story on the stairs


my buggy, getting to share a meal with her Great-Grandpa!

Ollie and Great-Grandpa
 
the tandem bike at school! MADE for them!




Friday, November 19, 2010

have I mentioned how much I LOVE Fall?

and also that I LOVE cousins?
and how much I love seeing my twins jump in big piles of leaves?
also, I'm pretty sure that this year is the first time I've ever noticed, really noticed the changing colors of the leaves. I'm sure I have the only two three-year-olds on the planet who can consistantly use the word "foliage". I don't think it's all that more beautiful this year than any other, I just think I am a suddenly a major sap who sees beauty in much more than I used to.





I have a lot more racing around in my head, but it's Friday evening with baths to be had, books to be read and twins to be 'jammied and put to bed, so I'll close with a post to a new (to me) blog I've stumbled on. Beautiful sentiment, and beautifully written.

Brave Girls Club

(thanks for the original share, tbonegirl!)


Saturday, November 6, 2010

small victories

One of the great things about having a child with special needs is that every small step we take becomes amazing.
Every "normal" day becomes extraordinary.
Every special thing that happens is multiplied by 1000.
Every outing we survive without, say, vomit (Violet's), injury (mine) or an enormous amount of tears (any of us) is a huge accomplishment.

Here are little yet phenomenal things that have happened lately:

1. After dropping the twins off at preschool, another mom asked if I was Violet's mom. She said she had heard all about Violet from her daughter, and they had shared a seat on the bus together to the pumpkin farm. Your daughter talks about PLAYING with my daughter? My daughter PLAYS with her? And sits WITH her on the bus. UNREAL.

2. Knock-knock jokes are in full swing in our home. One of the many (many) reasons I'm glad I have twins- they can knock-knock to each other for an hour and I just have to listen. Here's their favorite:

Knock knock
Who's there?
Banana
Banana who?
Banana come to the door to say hello!

and then they laugh hysterically.

3.  For as long as I can remember, Violet has smacked me in the face whenever I sing to her. It's very disheartening, not to mention painful. I try to tell her that sometimes people PAY mommy to sing, but she won't have it. We've been working in therapy on getting her to use her words instead of lashing out or screaming incoherently when she doesn't like something. FINALLY, yesterday as I was singing the clean up song, she approached me, and I braced myself she got within inches of my face and murmured,
"no sing, Mama!!"
Beautiful.

4. Speaking of singing, I performed in this last Saturday. It was the first time the twins saw me at "work" and with about 600 people there, I was so apprehensive about bringing Violet. She did so well! Plugged her ears, yes, but stayed, listened, smiled when they lit up the Christmas tree. And, so worth it, as Ollie and Violet have been serenading me with "ha-yoo-yah!" ever since. Big time smiles.

5.  Halloween. The kids had a blast over a VERY busy weekend. Violet had a little bit of trouble with some of the noises (or rather, she anticipated a lot of noise), so spent a great deal of the evening with the hands covering her ears. But I think that's okay- she knows what bothers her, and she's found a way to help herself. For now. Oliver was Larry the Cucumber and Violet was both a bunny and then a chicken (a quick costume change is always appropriate on Halloween). Neither of my kids like candy (Yep. NO clue how that happened, and I know it won't last much longer), so were content going from house to house with their buddies and looking at the other kids' costumes.

That's all for today, although my head is FULL of other amazing things I could write about. Honestly, I could also easily think of a handful of worries, concerns and stresses, and maybe that post will come later.

But maybe not. Funny how the blessing always seem to overtake everything else!

ollie and vi picking pumpkins on the school trip. these were photos that our beloved ABA therapist who shadows violet in school texted me. Can you imagine getting these on your phone?

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

fall...and then somel!!

playing in the leaves with Ruby!



sharing the excitement of walking Cappy!


loving Sadie


trying to get a group photo of all three kids in costume!

"excuse me, mama?"



Bobbo and Ollie


miss Potato head in her glasses




I apologize for being so lax about updating the blog lately. What can I say? These toddlers keep me BUSY. I've always assumed that the parenting challenges I feel were because I had twins; now i'm starting to wonder if it's because I have very, very spirited children, who happen to be twins!

We now have literally NO seating in our home, other than our huge, L-shaped couch, as ANYTHING else can be dragged into the kitchen, providing Violet with easy access to the counters. I have converted one of the bedrooms on the third floor into a playroom of sorts, with a slide, ball pit and active stuff, so that as it gets colder, the babes will have a place to get some of their energy out. Going certain places has become easier, but many outings have become more difficult. Mostly, the twins have no desire to stay in their stroller, so unless we're going someplace where I can keep things moving, have nothing within their eyesight that would entice them, and keep the cupholders filled with veggie bootie, it's a tough trip. I caved and bought "leashes" for them, in hopes we could take some walks just the three of us, but it usually ends up being me standing with two heavy toddlers pulling in either direction until they fall over and lie on the ground.

Otherwise, I LOVE TWO! Such an amazing age.
I wanted to write about each of the babes, who they are now - and it's really incredibly hard. I don't even know where to begin. They're very complicated for not even being two years old.....

First up is Ollie.


Loves: THOMAS the train (and all of his friends), anything with wheels, being social, running, wresting (especially with Dada), jumping, dancing, playing drums, digging in the mud (preferably with his fingers), his pacifier (passy), .... pretty much everything.

Favorite Foods: donuts (he recognizes the Dunkin Donuts box... not good), hot dogs (actually turkey corn dogs in our house with TONS of ketchup), peaches, bananas, veggie booty, pizza ("pizza PIE!").... pretty much everything

Favorite TV Show: definitely Thomas, although the silly show is only seven minutes long, so for dinner-making or other times I need to keep them occupied, he loves Mickey Mouse and Little Bear

Favorite Place:
loves going ANYWHERE. We've had major car seat battles lately, unless I can convince him we're going someplace that would be more fun for him than running down the street. He likes to go up on all the neighbors' porches (ah, rowhomes!), and stops to pick up pinecones, flowers, etc. His number one destination would be the Please Touch Museum, but only because they have a Thomas the Train Table set up (sensing a pattern here?)

Ollie loves his Mommy. He greets me every time I enter the room like he hasn't seen me in months, throws his arms around me and kisses me. He asks me "What you doing?", and has gotten SO good at communicating that we can have pretty long conversations. Oliver always loves to have his boo-boos kissed (even yesterday when he hurt his tooth!) and hates to have Mama out of his sight. I know it won't last forever, and I treasure every moment!!

His favorite thing is to play...wait for it...Thomas the Train with me. I've deduced (never having "played" trains in my life until now), that so far, it means just pushing the trains around the track, having simple conversations between the engines, and frequently putting them in perilous situations. It's a lot of "What you doing, Thomas?" "Oh, no! Thomas!" "Watch out, Thomas!". I love it.

He seems to be a better sleeper than his sister. He nearly ALWAYS naps, and falls asleep quickly at night. However, when he's up, he's UP, and you'd better get him quickly or he'll yell until he wakes everyone. Violet usually sings and talks herself down, talking to the stuffed animals in her crib, but when she's down, she's down, and she's a heavy sleeper.

He is my sweet, beautiful, goofy boy. He is my comedian and my little kind soul. My loving baby and busy toddler. My Eskimo kisser and my lightening-fast social butterfly.

He's my Oliver.

And he is perfect.



Violet:

Loves: animals (especially dogs and sea animals), her beloved blanket ("ganky"), coloring, building with blocks, ALL sorts of books and puzzles. Loves Ring-Around-the-Rosie and having her feet tickled.

Favorite Foods: macaroni and cheese, grilled cheese and MILK. She's a milk fiend. In tough times, we still pull out the baba, and she ADORES it.

Also likes waffles, veggie booty and raisin toast. Definitely my pickier eater.

Neither twin is into sweets. They wanted nothing to do with the Halloween candy, nor cake or cookies in general, and when someone sneaks them a lollipop or something, they kind of toss it aside. Not sure how THAT happened while they were in MY womb, but, again, I'll take it as long as I can!

She is usually amazingly shy with everyone except Ben and I (and any stray animal that happens by). She is very smart, and can say and recognize all of her number and letters, colors and shapes, along with new things that I truly don't recall teaching her! She loves singing, although doesn't always seem to like it when Mama joins in!

Favorite TV Show: Little Bear, but also loves Baby Einstein still. Ok, let's be honest here: she loves ANY TV, in any form.

Favorite Place: The park or playground. Peanut Butter loves to climb, run, slide, and LOVES being outside! She has already climbed out of her crib (and did not cry....yikes!), and is constantly trying to climb the posts that hold up the roof of our porch. The only thing more enticing than a big open park would be a park JUST after a rainstorm- she LOVES puddles and getting wet!

Violet is so hard to sum up. Since the day she was born she has been our peanut, our little unique girl .

She has definite opinions on what she likes and doesn't like. She can be very affectionate and loves snuggling and hugs and kisses from Mama, Dada and occasionally Grammy, but only on her terms. She is amazingly independent and will take all afternoon to accomplish something on her own rather than let someone help her. She is a very good sharer (luckily for her brother, who often grabs from her), and seems to be a calm spirit for the most part.

She is SUCH an animal lover. She gets so excited over every animal she sees from a ladybug out back to our neighbor's cats to the otters at the zoo. Her favorite though is still dogs. Loves dogs, loves loves. Oliver enjoys animals, Violet is madly in love. We're seriously thinking of getting a dog, because it seems to light such a spark in our Peanut Butter!

She is my sweet, beautiful, loving girl. She is my tiny daredevil and my little brainiac. My sweet baby and stubborn toddler. My calm snuggler and hysterical crier. My angel girl, my puzzle.

My Violet, my Peanut Butter.

And she, too, is perfect.




Tuesday, October 28, 2008

almost Halloween!




















We took a fun drive to the Poconos this past weekend to visit with Uncle Mike, Aunt Denise and little Ben (although he is almost my height, he is doomed to always be "little" next to tall and elder Ben). We went to a great pumpkin patch, and then had a delicious dinner at their house. It was the first time we took a full day trip anywhere, and the babies did beautifully! They slept the whole two hour drive up, and had a wonderful time running around the pumpkins, playing with the dogs, eating yummy Halloween-y things and playing with their cousins.
Little Ben was our ring bearer 5 years ago (and 10 days!), along with Ava who was our flower girl. I thought it'd be fun to compare how much they've grown up!

awwww...still hugging!!


Lastly- the two big piece of news in our house.
1. Peanut was reading this little Halloween book I got her, where there is a little "peek-a-boo" flap on every page. She sits alone and reads her books a lot, but this time, she sat there, turning every page saying "peek...BOO! peek...BOO!" and opening and closing the flaps! SO CUTE!!!! My mom and I tried to get it on video, but she only did it for a few seconds at the beginning (that's Ollie in the background playing with the pots and pans):




2. Our new ball pit. An awesome find by the big deal-finder! The babies LOVE it- and I think it's the one toy they can play with together and have no grabbing or someone seeing that the other's toy looks better!